tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post3488410779008102385..comments2023-09-08T04:38:55.306-04:00Comments on The Heron Clan: Love and Power ExchangeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-67077787991840038692011-11-09T22:36:30.597-05:002011-11-09T22:36:30.597-05:00Impish and K -- I could just kiss you both!
swanImpish and K -- I could just kiss you both!<br /><br />swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-72292588302016939712011-11-09T19:16:55.140-05:002011-11-09T19:16:55.140-05:00Plus it makes you sound like a righteous biatch.
...Plus it makes you sound like a righteous biatch.<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-32699796535634453442011-11-09T12:25:03.154-05:002011-11-09T12:25:03.154-05:00Anon,
Please rethink the concept that you can trul...Anon,<br />Please rethink the concept that you can truly gain from someone else's loss. Another's loss or pain or anger or disappointment diminishes us all. That includes yours. I will hope for better times, and better feelings soon for everyone.Impish1noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-15109555718292524422011-11-08T22:37:14.268-05:002011-11-08T22:37:14.268-05:00swan,
please don't be sorry for me. i'm no...swan,<br />please don't be sorry for me. i'm not. i'm very happy. your loss has indeed been my gain. i'm not trying to "fix" anything. support and encouragement are much more helpful than "fixing" in most cases. you should know that. i truly hope and pray that you all can work things out. i just have never seen the 'what goes around comes around' saying played out so clearly. when i realized that's what all this was, i just couldn't keep quiet. guess i'll try harder next time.<br />LAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-90731021617833606272011-11-08T21:23:24.046-05:002011-11-08T21:23:24.046-05:00K -- I think your thoughts are indeed "helpfu...K -- I think your thoughts are indeed "helpful." Thank you. <br />There will be a new "we" in time. Healing is possible. It isn't a fast or easy process, but we are working at it. <br />I am hopeful that our way will smooth out as we move forward. It cannot always be this hard...<br />swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-4276986708661473322011-11-08T21:08:52.564-05:002011-11-08T21:08:52.564-05:00L -- Your words identify you, even though
you hid...L -- Your words identify you, even though<br /> you hide behind that "anonymous" handle: <br /><br />"fail to encourage and help someone dealing with childhood issues and it will and has come back to haunt you."<br /><br />I can understand how frustrating your life must be with that "someone with childhood issues." I lived that life for a very great many years -- as you know. That I did not succeed in "fixing" what was broken in him, does not mean I did not try.<br /><br />I am not, as you suppose, "haunted" by his issues, but rather by my own. The difference, I imagine, is that there is some possiblity that I might heal. The damages done by his mother's alcohol abuse are not merely psychological, and they are not going to be repaired by you or me or anyone else. <br /><br />I am sorry for your pain.<br /><br />swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-25172122431026903162011-11-08T20:57:47.280-05:002011-11-08T20:57:47.280-05:00Impish, morningstar -- thank you, both, for your k...Impish, morningstar -- thank you, both, for your kind words and the energies you invest in holding us up. We are working to find our ways. Somedays, it seems more hopeful than others, and somedays we get tired. Still, we keep holding on.<br /><br />swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-11720046973543709832011-11-08T08:44:43.175-05:002011-11-08T08:44:43.175-05:00I don't think either of you failed. That would...I don't think either of you failed. That would imply there is an epic success and I believe that relationships are sometimes just messy. And work. In the end, I think you are human. With human imperfections and foibles.<br /><br />Things cannot go back to where they were. A new relationship has to be formed, after you can both forgive each other. Because IMHO, neither of you is blameless and clearly there is no forgiveness.<br /><br />Maybe if you each concentrate on your own healing and keep communicating, you can find your way to a new 'we.'<br /><br />I hope these thoughts might be helpful.<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-26318275711597084902011-11-07T05:41:38.775-05:002011-11-07T05:41:38.775-05:00sending you hugs..........
as always you are all...sending you hugs.......... <br /><br />as always you are all in my thoughtsmorningstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-50190653834213536802011-11-06T21:14:03.532-05:002011-11-06T21:14:03.532-05:00I'm thinking of you both, all three. Hold tig...I'm thinking of you both, all three. Hold tight to the love. It will be the lifeline to your way out, and I'm sure one will show itself as you both keep sticking.Impish1noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-39092025532488949502011-11-06T20:31:36.342-05:002011-11-06T20:31:36.342-05:00seems to me you both need to work on your own issu...seems to me you both need to work on your own issues right now and just agree to exist in one place for the time being. until you are both 'healthy' in mind, body and spirit, you can't or shouldn't take on fixing anything else. just my opinion.<br />it is interesting and enlightening to watch all this unfold. what goes around comes around. fail to encourage and help someone dealing with childhood issues and it will and has come back to haunt you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com