tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post8556271633654136003..comments2023-09-08T04:38:55.306-04:00Comments on The Heron Clan: Sex PositiveUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-83981878584389198622011-11-25T16:44:37.875-05:002011-11-25T16:44:37.875-05:00Swan
I just wanted to say that I actually found yo...Swan<br />I just wanted to say that I actually found your blogging about your struggles post-hysterectomy to be extremely helpful to me.<br /><br />I am a young woman who, at 31 years old had to have a hysterectomy because of a horrifically quick progression of fibroids (in less than 5 months I went from 2 detectable on ultrasound to an entire uterus so full of them that it was pushing all my other internal organs out of shape). Reading your struggles definitely gave me hope, because it helped me to that realization that a womb does not equal a woman. <br />I was a virgin in terms of partner sex when the hysterectomy happened, largely because I had not had a relationship in which sex felt like it would be a natural or comfortable extension of our interactions. I have no regrets about this. (It seems prudent, though, to add that I am quite comfortable taking care of my own needs so, it's really not a matter of sex seeming "bad, wrong, dirty" or anything like that, it's simply knowing myself well enough to make the decisions that are right for me). I returned to being a fully orgasmic, fantasizing woman within three months of my surgery. <br />So, please, I want you to know that you writing frankly and honestly about your relationships, sexuality, and your feelings DOES do some good in the world. It does help people. <br />From the bottom of my heart, thank you.<br />"Friendly and Curious"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-70325780501172151932011-11-22T22:02:30.743-05:002011-11-22T22:02:30.743-05:00"And, I will never, ever understand why those..."And, I will never, ever understand why those people believe that they should get to be the arbiters of my sexual choices, and my speaking as I choose about those choices."<br /><br />Well Dear Swan, no one else does get to be the arbiter of anything about your life - unless you allow them to. Petty people need to feel significant and important, and every time they get a rise out of you they receive a surge of power. I urge a liberal use of the delete button, and never referring to them at all, in order to remove any hint of power over you or in your life. In fact, I would encourage the use of comment moderation, just for the purpose of not allowing people to empower themselves at your expense.<br />But that's just my 2 cents. I don't generally care much what others think or say about me, and I rarely allow them to take any of my power away. I only give that to Master. :)Tapestryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10168751514565148748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-27949660997918743362011-11-22T11:14:53.384-05:002011-11-22T11:14:53.384-05:00Oh, now I see the comment above that was previousl...Oh, now I see the comment above that was previously deleted! It is now the second comment.<br /><br />Wow. Fisting, eh? Luckily I missed that one lol!<br /><br />I don't see what "trap" was sprung by the commenter commenting on a post that seems to have been directed at him/her, though. But they do make some good points, IMO.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-52944917906352188152011-11-21T15:39:31.372-05:002011-11-21T15:39:31.372-05:00I just appreciate that someone else is actually ha...I just appreciate that someone else is actually having sex. Any kind of consensual sex.<br /><br />As I am not. :(<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-41714745376574211292011-11-21T11:40:14.863-05:002011-11-21T11:40:14.863-05:00Your blog is in a folder in my bookmarks, along wi...Your blog is in a folder in my bookmarks, along with tons of other bloggers I keep track of, from mommy-bloggers to humor bloggers and everything in between. I middle-click the folder with my mouse and they all pop up in my browser at once.<br /><br />I don't come here to read about your sex lives and I don't care that you're poly or BDSM. It simply doesn't matter to me, I'm not offended, I'm not titillated, I am just not interested and when you blog about such things, I skim. <br /><br />I am very curious at how you all relate to each other. Like watching a reality show.<br /><br />My surprise at your kids reading here was much more about the other, non-sexual aspects of your relationship. The fights, the drunkenness, the arrests, the pain. <br /><br />Like K, I missed the Plano, TX comments, or any others like them. Maybe those readers were upset about your sex life but I'm not.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-12351886037173093092011-11-21T11:06:11.903-05:002011-11-21T11:06:11.903-05:00Well here's the thing. If they really wanted t...Well here's the thing. If they really wanted to show us the error of our ways - they would be out there preaching or banging on our doors with pamphlets rather than lurking around sex blogs (FOR YEARS!) criticizing us. <br /><br />I think they desire and fear what you have in almost equal measure. I think it's sad for them. And,yes very fucking annoying for you that they can't stay away.<br /><br />good lucksinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00082648132476803815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-30840109496992006812011-11-21T08:03:33.951-05:002011-11-21T08:03:33.951-05:00Son of a gun. I go out of town and I miss all the...Son of a gun. I go out of town and I miss all the dang fun. I don't see any ucky comments, but maybe you deleted them?<br /><br />Wouldn't blame you, but I think I would reply to someone like that:<br /><br />Jealous much?<br /><br />;)<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-86863867563200750572011-11-21T07:04:25.949-05:002011-11-21T07:04:25.949-05:00ROFL, it is so gratifying to lay a trap and have t...ROFL, it is so gratifying to lay a trap and have the predictability of the prey involved snap it shut so efficiently. The prey in this case a repeat offender who has repeatedly authored negative, and at time vitriolic anonymous comments here. There can be no more perfect argument for the validity of swan's post than this response.<br /><br />Does it not seem odd that, what with this commenter from Plano, Texas finding what is presented here so trememndously offensive, she/he has read here religiously for years? <br /><br />Thank you for your response.....offered within four hours of this post's appearance on the Blog. We could never have written anything to more effectively illustrate the concept this post addresses.<br /><br />TomRaheretichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12893769601990341545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-17303806329657931332011-11-21T00:55:10.758-05:002011-11-21T00:55:10.758-05:00Your hypocrisy never fails to amaze me. You have ...Your hypocrisy never fails to amaze me. You have written post after post after post judging and critisizing almost everyone imaginable. You have viciously attacked unsuspecting strangers in public when their behavior rubbed you the wrong way. Do you ever read your own blog? That is why these comments are directed at you. And yet every time you receive such a comment you write another long, patronizing post JUDGING (incorrectly I might add) the commenter, even as you attack them for stating an opinion. And although you rant and rave about the comment, you don't have the courage to allow them to be seen. The truth hurts I suppose. <br /><br />I doubt you will find any support for exposing your children to a picture of you fisting yourself, regardless of their ages. I merely pointed out that there was a significant "ick" factor there, quoting from your very own post in which you were, once again, judging others. If you don't realize that, you're delusional. <br /><br />Seriously, the picture of you fisting yourself was bad enough. It's not the act that is offensive. It's the idea that you need to post it for the world, AND YOUR OWN CHILDREN, to see. Why? Why do you need this attention? <br /><br />And why assume that someone with a simple sense of decency is sex negative? Or even vanilla for that matter? Or unhappy? <br /><br />All the readers here realize quite clearly who is bitter, angry, and unhappy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18440943.post-85406115126301577202011-11-20T21:55:12.086-05:002011-11-20T21:55:12.086-05:00Bra and VO, lady!Bra and VO, lady!Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.com