T is healing. Slowly. She had her first post-surgical follow-up appointment with the surgeon today, and things seem to be progressing. He told her that she should plan to be off work for another 4-6 weeks. That was expected.
Tonight, she is very tired, and not feeling terrific. Some days are better. This is not one of those.
I've copied almost all of this information to our "bariatric surgery blog:" Herons Transforming, so if you are interested in following her progress, you can check there for updates.
Thanks for all the good wishes!
swan
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7/29/2013
7/22/2013
Home!
We brought T home from the hospital this afternoon, arriving here at about 4 PM.
She is well, although very, very tired.
We are all just very glad to have her here. Our old man cat, Pranzer, her special feline buddy, is glued to her side. Tom and I have done our level best to spend lots of time with him, but there is no replacement for his "mommy."
Now, we begin the long journey through post surgical weight loss, and the slow return to what will become the "normal" eating patterns for her. For the next few days, that will be mostly clear liquids, and the protein supplement that is recommended for bariatric patients. Slowly, over the next few weeks, she will advance through stages: full liquids, soft foods, and then eventually, solids.
There is time for all of that now. For today, it is just enough to have her back with us.
swan
She is well, although very, very tired.
We are all just very glad to have her here. Our old man cat, Pranzer, her special feline buddy, is glued to her side. Tom and I have done our level best to spend lots of time with him, but there is no replacement for his "mommy."
Now, we begin the long journey through post surgical weight loss, and the slow return to what will become the "normal" eating patterns for her. For the next few days, that will be mostly clear liquids, and the protein supplement that is recommended for bariatric patients. Slowly, over the next few weeks, she will advance through stages: full liquids, soft foods, and then eventually, solids.
There is time for all of that now. For today, it is just enough to have her back with us.
swan
7/19/2013
Better Today
Today, T is much better. The x-rays today showed that the contrast medium is moving down into the large intestine, and the nurses are beginning to be able to hear bowel sounds. She is having much less pain, and there has been no nausea. At about 2:00 this afternoon, they clamped the naso-gastric tube and allowed her to start sipping water and eating ice chips. That all seemed to go fine this afternoon. If she continues to do well for 12 hours, they will remove the N-g tube and allow her to start on clear liquids. A couple of days on clear liquids, and she will probably be able to come home (assuming all goes well).
So, maybe we will be able to bring her home on Sunday or Monday.
Today is definitely better than yesterday.
swan
7/18/2013
Not as Easy as it Looked
We were thrilled with the outcome of T's surgery on Tuesday. She seemed to breeze right through, and when we left the hospital on Tuesday evening, we were imagining she might be home today sometime. Wednesday started out well, and things were looking promising, but by afternoon, it began to appear that there were problems developing.
The doctor had ordered a "routine" x-ray with contrast that was meant to show that all the new connections were intact. That was done at about 9:00 Wednesday morning, and in theory, once it was read by the radiologist, she would be allowed to start taking clear liquids. We waited. And waited... And waited. As the morning turned to afternoon, and then as the afternoon wore on, we began to worry. Too, she began to feel nauseous and her abdomen was distended and felt warm to the touch. She began to complain of pain -- inside, and it kept getting worse and worse. By about 6 PM, we got word that there was NOTHING moving through the stomach; absolutely nothing passing through the stomach and into the intestine. We were told that it might be edema that was causing swelling and preventing the contrast media from moving through the new pouch. It might also be an ileus. We are familiar with ileus -- Tom had trouble with ileus after His roux en y, and again after His bowel obstruction. Or, worst case, maybe it was a kink in the intestine -- which would necessitate further surgery to correct it.
We were at the hospital until about 9:00 last night, and when we headed home, we were very concerned that there would be more surgery today. We tried to get to bed early and got up at 3:45 AM so we could be back at the hospital by 6 AM to see her surgeon. When we arrived, it turned out that a series of additional x-rays were being ordered to try and evaluate the situation.
We spent about 13 hours today, waiting for some word, watching poor Teresa hurt, helpless to alleviate her pain and nausea. It was a long, miserable day for her. At the end of it all, it appears that there is significant swelling which is impeding the flow of liquids through the stomach. There will be more x-rays tomorrow, but unless the docs see something else, this is going to be mostly a matter of some days to allow the swelling to resolve.
At least tonight, she seems to be feeling better. Hopefully, she'll be able to sleep tonight. Hopefully, we will do likewise. Tomorrow, we'll be back at the hospital with her, and we'll see where we go from here.
swan
The doctor had ordered a "routine" x-ray with contrast that was meant to show that all the new connections were intact. That was done at about 9:00 Wednesday morning, and in theory, once it was read by the radiologist, she would be allowed to start taking clear liquids. We waited. And waited... And waited. As the morning turned to afternoon, and then as the afternoon wore on, we began to worry. Too, she began to feel nauseous and her abdomen was distended and felt warm to the touch. She began to complain of pain -- inside, and it kept getting worse and worse. By about 6 PM, we got word that there was NOTHING moving through the stomach; absolutely nothing passing through the stomach and into the intestine. We were told that it might be edema that was causing swelling and preventing the contrast media from moving through the new pouch. It might also be an ileus. We are familiar with ileus -- Tom had trouble with ileus after His roux en y, and again after His bowel obstruction. Or, worst case, maybe it was a kink in the intestine -- which would necessitate further surgery to correct it.
We were at the hospital until about 9:00 last night, and when we headed home, we were very concerned that there would be more surgery today. We tried to get to bed early and got up at 3:45 AM so we could be back at the hospital by 6 AM to see her surgeon. When we arrived, it turned out that a series of additional x-rays were being ordered to try and evaluate the situation.
We spent about 13 hours today, waiting for some word, watching poor Teresa hurt, helpless to alleviate her pain and nausea. It was a long, miserable day for her. At the end of it all, it appears that there is significant swelling which is impeding the flow of liquids through the stomach. There will be more x-rays tomorrow, but unless the docs see something else, this is going to be mostly a matter of some days to allow the swelling to resolve.
At least tonight, she seems to be feeling better. Hopefully, she'll be able to sleep tonight. Hopefully, we will do likewise. Tomorrow, we'll be back at the hospital with her, and we'll see where we go from here.
swan
7/16/2013
Out of Surgery
T is out of surgery as of 11:00 our time. Everything went very, very well. The surgeon was able to do it all via laprascope, so much less difficult than we feared. She will be a couple of hours in recovery, and then may be home in 2-3 days. To say we are relieved is a huge understatement. Thrilled!!!
Thank you all for the good energies.
swan
Thank you all for the good energies.
swan
7/14/2013
The Weekend Before
We have spent the weekend together. Trying to take it easy ahead of Tuesday's surgery. T has been limited to a liquid, pre-surgical diet that is meant to enhance her recovery. It is pretty awful stuff, and she has not been feeling terrific as a result. Too, she has needed to take it pretty easy so as not to disturb the pic line in her arm.
We have "entertained" ourselves by seeing silly movies: World War Z and White House Down. Neither one is recommended if you are after heady, intellectual fare. These are action packed and pretty light stuff. Good diversions for this last weekend before surgery.
We are coping with our stresses. Hoping for the very best possible outcome. T is determined that we will all be home together next Sunday. If she's up for that, then Tom and I am right there with her.
Wish us luck, friends.
swan
We have "entertained" ourselves by seeing silly movies: World War Z and White House Down. Neither one is recommended if you are after heady, intellectual fare. These are action packed and pretty light stuff. Good diversions for this last weekend before surgery.
We are coping with our stresses. Hoping for the very best possible outcome. T is determined that we will all be home together next Sunday. If she's up for that, then Tom and I am right there with her.
Wish us luck, friends.
swan
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