There are many ways to identify where the power resides in a relationship. It isn't nearly as complicated as we sometimes make it. Consider...
- In a household, like ours, where there are cats, who manages the litter box(es)?
- Who cooks... and who cleans up after the cooking?
- Who tends to the laundry?
- Who mops the floors and scrubs the toilets?
- Who changes the bedlinens?
- Who makes the coffee?
I am certain there is more. Feel free to add to the list if you are so inclined.