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The Weekend Before

We have spent the weekend together.  Trying to take it easy ahead of Tuesday's surgery.  T has been limited to a liquid, pre-surgical diet that is meant to enhance her recovery.  It is pretty awful stuff, and she has not been feeling terrific as a result.  Too, she has needed to take it pretty easy so as not to disturb the pic line in her arm.

We have "entertained" ourselves by seeing silly movies:  World War Z and White House Down.  Neither one is recommended if you are after heady, intellectual fare.  These are action packed and pretty light stuff.  Good diversions for this last weekend before surgery.

We are coping with our stresses.  Hoping for the very best possible outcome.  T is determined that we will all be home together next Sunday.  If she's up for that, then Tom and I am right there with her.

Wish us luck, friends.



  1. Sending lots and lots of luck...if you can keep us posted.
    hugs abby

  2. All my best for T - are you going back to your bariatric health blog to update? I loved that blog....

  3. Hang in there T....

  4. I will keep you all very close to my heart.... next Sunday it is!! Knowing T's determination I have no doubt of it

  5. Sending good wishes and positive vibes to you T during this phase of your exciting journey. Some hand holding for your stressed loves as well. :)


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