Way down at the bottom of our Blog link list where we link those Blogs who don't have feed readers or which are not blogs but other locations called "other places" you will find a Blog called "Lost In Our Eyes." Their apparently last post in August 2008 was called "The Kink Fingerprint and Punishment." It is an intriguing piece that posits that each person's kink is unique unto them self, like a fingerprint, and that when we think we see the same or similar practice in another we are in fact noticing that theirs is like our own, but that similarity may only be superficial. Ours is unique as is theirs. That being accepted then, each relationship would have a "joint fingerprint" that would represent the confluence of those (however many) "fingerprints" dynamically interacting. The exponential permutations of this are mind boggling.
It is too bad these folks have not continued blogging. What insightful thoughts they had.
The next time you see another's Kink described and you are tempted to say whether it is like or unlike yours, or if you feel drawn to be judgmental of "how they do this," I think we all would do well to remember the concept of the "kink fingerprint."
God I enjoy my fingerprints all over swan and t and theirs on me:)
All the best,
Tom
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.
It is too bad these folks have not continued blogging. What insightful thoughts they had.
The next time you see another's Kink described and you are tempted to say whether it is like or unlike yours, or if you feel drawn to be judgmental of "how they do this," I think we all would do well to remember the concept of the "kink fingerprint."
God I enjoy my fingerprints all over swan and t and theirs on me:)
All the best,
Tom
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.
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