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4/21/2010

We Are In Go Mode

“A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.”

We have travel plans! It has been a very long while since we had time and capacity to do much traveling. We used to go on a pretty regular basis to Gatlinburg, Tennessee; rent a cabin up on a mountain; and just tuck in for a few days of serious rest and recuperation. Here lately, even our Gatlinburg trips have been seriously curtailed as we seem to never find time to get away together anymore.

That is about to change. We have a wedding to attend in May. Master's eldest is planning a wedding in the Outer Banks of North Carolina. We've known about it, of course, for months now, but our thinking about it has been pretty abstract as we've wrestled with which of us could go, and how we would go, and how much time we might take to go, and what we might do on the way there and back, and where we needed to stay if we did go... A serious tangled up, rambling conversation that has just not taken us where we needed to be in order to actually put a plan in place for making the journey.

Finally, a couple of nights ago, we got busy and sorted though the alternatives and options, and made a plan. We now have reservations at what looks like a very nice hotel, and we are ready to go. We all have what Master is referring to as "wedding duds," and it seems as if our little family will get to make a real live, honest to goodness trip together. The wedding will be fine, I'm sure, but I know that I am looking forward to some time away -- just the three of us.

Then, on a roll, we also made plans for some summer travel. It will be just a weekend away -- T is in a new job, and neither Master nor T can take of very much time from work because there's been so much time taken in the last year as they recovered from surgeries...

Never mind though -- we've got an absolutely lovely hotel suite reserved with a small living room, full kitchen and a fireplace, and two bedrooms all in the midst of the Ann Arbor Art Festival. It looks wonderful, and again it will just be so nice to get away for a bit of time.

We've got our traveling shoes out and ready to go.

swan

7 comments:

  1. YIPPPPPPPEEEEEEEE The Clan is traveling again :):)

    i will miss you while you are at the wedding... but god enjoy enjoy enjoy !!!!


    maybe time to announce some of my traveling plans too.. what do you think???


    morningstar - who is having a really good day today !

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  2. Fantastic!! I'm sure both trips will do you all so much good....you certainly deserve some serious R&R.

    love and hugs xxx

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  3. morningstar -- I am so glad you are having a good day, and I hope you are not overdoing things... As for announcing your travel plans, you could certainly do that when/if you thougt best...

    M:e -- you are right! I think we do DESERVE some R&R together. I just hope the universe agrees with you and I.

    hugs, swan

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  4. May I wish you all a safe and WONDERFUL trip!

    Come back to us happy, relaxed and rejuvinated until the next trip is planned.

    Warren

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  5. Anonymous2:54 AM

    Wonderful! You sure deserve some time off all of you...together!

    Hugs from the super lurker
    Annelin

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  6. Oh that's wonderful news! So glad you're getting away together. Enjoy!

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  7. Anonymous, t's response to swan and my relationship and love is a wonderful and very giving form of love called compeersion. Compersion is the reverse of jealously. I would suspect strongly by your question here that this level of human interrelatedness is beyond your ability. How sad for you,


    Tom

    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.

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