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3/18/2010

T's Mom -- Surgery (Update -- Thursday Afternoon)

Things have really not changed much for T's mom.  Her kidney function has improved, and that seems to be resolved.  However, the lung function is still exactly as it was when she arrived at the hospital.  There is no infection, and the doctors continue to refer to this problem as "inflamation."  She remains unable to walk as far as a bedside commode without experiencing extreme shortness of breath and a dangerous drop in her oxygenation levels.


Today, she is undergoing surgery to biopsy lung tissue.  It is a risky and invasive procedure, and we are worried about how she will come through it.  We do expect her to spend some time in intensive care and on a respirator. 


T is already on the road so she can be with her mother before she goes to surgery.  Master and I will leave shortly to go be with her while she waits.  Once again, we'd ask those of you who are inclined to sit with us this day.


Thank you, friends.
swan

1:59 PM (Eastern Daylight Time)
T's mom made it through the surgery well.  The surgeon took 3 tissue biopsies.  We may have a preliminary report from those later today, but the full results are not likely to be ready until Monday or Tuesday next week. 
Mom is in intensive care and on a ventilator.  The ventilator is a concern; to us and to her doctors.  They are likely to keep her sedated for the near term so that she does not fight against the ventilator. 
T has gone to get a bit of a break, and Master and I are home preparing to attend the board meeting for His agency scheduled for this evening. 

I cannot tell you how much it means to us to have all of you supporting and thinking of us as we go through this today.  Thank you all -- so much!
swan

8 comments:

  1. please tell t for me that i continue to hold her close and keep her mom in my prayers.

    It seems it is never ending for you folks :(

    you know i will be "sitting" with you today and anxiously awaiting a report on how it went.

    morningstar

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  2. Impish110:51 AM

    Big hug for T, hand holding for all. I sit with you as well.

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  3. I'll keep you all in my prayers the next few days. Keep us posted please?

    Sending you all hugs too!!

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  4. Karen1:08 PM

    You are in my thoughts...hope all will be well...Karen

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  5. I know I don't comment here often, but my thoughts are with you all.

    mouse

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  6. Anonymous2:05 PM

    Good luck with everything...

    Annelin

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  7. I'm so glad to hear she's pulled through the surgery. I hope her road to recovery is a short and stress-free one.

    ~Chloe

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  8. i am relieved to hear t's mom made it through the surgery - i know it was a big worry for all of you. i will keep my fingers crossed that the doctors will find the cause of the problems and fix it quick !!!

    thinking of you all...

    morningstar

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