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A Good Day

I am hesitant to even name the current state of our reality, but today, for the first time since all of this began, we seem to be having a pretty good day. 
He is calmer.  When He talks, it sounds like His voice again.  He is, right now, in walking on the treadmill, and later, we'll gather around the fire place, have some pizza, and watch the NFL playoff game. 
T has finished her first week back at work, even managing to put in some overtime hours, and seems to be feeling pretty good.  She has cut way back on her pain medication, and still seems to be OK.  She'll spend a few hours tomorrow afternoon visiting with her mom, but otherwise is trying to take it pretty easy this weekend.
Both T and I have made appointments to meet with the same therapist as Tom is seeing.  Those initial appointments are scheduled Wednesday.  It should be an interesting afternoon for all of us, but even moreso for our therapist.  The good news is that we have health insurance coverage for it all.  It seems that a certain person, with whom you are all familiar, spent a lot of time and energy  over His 35 year career advocating to mental health care to be treated the same as medical care related to physical ailments.  That "mental health parity" has become the law now, and so each of us within the clan can seek and receive mental health supports and treatments. 
None of us are inclined to  believe that everything is better, healed, or fixed, but each of us is relieved and glad for this one day; for the opportunity to breath a calm, quiet breath; for being able to look around and see the faceds of people that we love -- and know that they love us. 

Tomorrow is a mystery, still.  Today is a pretty good day.



  1. There will always be ups and downs.
    But each good day is a reassurance
    and a comfort.
    Enjoy it!
    I'm sure there will be more.

  2. Anonymous5:58 PM

    Thats nice to hear xoxoxox

  3. Nice to hear good news. And I'm sure it's even nicer for you to be able to write it.

  4. Impish18:14 PM

    Thankful for the one good day. Small gifts...

  5. "Like"

    A lot.


  6. One good day at a time!

  7. So good to hear about good days. They've been few and far between for you. I'll pray you get them more and more frequently.

  8. Hugs to all of you. Cling to the good days.

  9. This is so good to read. I wish many more days like this for you in the future.

    love and hugs xxx

  10. When I have gone through tough times I was always told to "live in the moment" You all had a precious moment yesterday and I am so happy for you !! Enjoy those days as they come - soon - before you know it - there will be more good days than bad.... I know it !!

  11. I'm so glad you all had a good day.
    Enjoy each precious moment.

  12. i hope there will be many more soon.

    sending positive thoughts your way,

    love, cassie

  13. Glad to read of a good day a well, and wishing safe paths to all in your family,


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