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Tom goes to court today.  We have no idea what to expect -- any of us.  We are hopeful, but also worried.  For T and I, this brings up a mixture of things -- wanting him home, but wanting to be safe, too.

We have neither of us slept in days.  Worrying and fussing.

Today, we are seeing signs in everything that happens:  in the playing of a long ago cello solo by Pablo Cassals that he said spoke of his dreams of freedom and peace, of a gospel story at church with the children this morning about Saul of Tarsus, knocked to the road by a force unseen -- and set upon a new path; in the relatively easy work tasks set for T this morning...

If the universe is largely a mystery -- X, then the mystery surrounds and holds us today.  We are adrift in the arms of that mystery, hoping that the small boat of our love may carry us safely to some as yet unseen shore.  Court should happen at 12:45 here in the Eastern time zone.  If you are inclined to offer some bit of energy at that time, it would work to hold us up and we would be most grateful.



  1. Sending extra warm positive thoughts

  2. Sending pillars of kharmic support to your family.

    It is hard to fully understand how Tom has become so lost... and how this has continued to spiral out of control.

    I hope you find the oars in that little boat of love and row yourselves to shore.


  3. I'm holding on to and then sending forth thoughts of you all, and hoping you and the universe can feel them.


  4. Checking in and found today's post via my iPhone. It may or may not be too late for sending Reiki healing energy, but it's on the way for whatever the results from today, you'll all still need it.

    Best wishes to all.

  5. Impish13:53 PM

    Bringing up the rear in whaever way I can! Sending you caring thoughts and a warm embrace.

  6. I have struggled to know what to say which might be of any help, support or comfort as the situation you are all facing has developed. Maybe its just enough to say that today, as you all are every day, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    much love and hugs xxx

  7. I so hope for good things for all three of you. Best wishes. Sin

  8. weirdgirl5:25 PM

    sending cyber-thoughts and best wishes to you all...

  9. Although I read this too late to send healing thoughts for today, please know you three are often in my mind.
    I cannot imagine the situation being worse.. my heart goes out to you all.

  10. The court date went remarkably well, considering the range of possibilities -- we were told that we could bring him home this afternoon. Poor Teresa jumped through every hoop and ran all over the county taking care of the details. When we arrived at the jail to pick him up, the bureaucratic shenanigans began -- first the paper work hadn't been faxed to the proper folks, then they didn't have the correct monitoring equipment, then it was offices closed and no one to make a decision. Frustration after frustration and not a single soul willing to bend even a hair. The short version of the long story is that he will stay again tonight in jail -- and T will bring him home tomorrow. We will have a lot of work and a lot of healing to do, but this is our time to begin again... One more sleep until he is home with us and we are all together again.

    Thank you, once again, to all of you who have reached out to us with words and thoughts and prayers. We are so richly blessed in you, our friends.



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