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2/06/2009

Winter Wickedness

It is Friday morning and so far it appears that the Winter Wickedness event is going forward as planned complete with a significantly upgraded venue and amenities from previous central Ohio events. Much thanks is due to the hard work, vision, entrepreneurial risk tolerance, and business sense of the event's organizers, and volunteers.

Once again, for a weekend, a small portion of the world will become liberated territory within which the BDSM/poly community's culture will be the norm, and, briefly, we will be able to be who we are openly, without pretense.

It is interesting to note that once again Christians, historical victims of persecution and discrimination, are doing their darnedest to prevent people who choose to live lives outside of the precepts of the myth they base their lives on the right to have a self-determined existance. It is interesting to have a huge cult of folks who worship a dead corpse of a man ritually nailed to a cross after non-consensual flogging, celebrate ritually symbolically eating human flesh and drinking blood, and believe in the resurrection of the dead, proclaiming that the belief and erotic rituals of other people are too weird to be tolerated. I hope we will have an absolute freak show of evangelicals carrying on outside our event. It is kind of like having an extra zoo exhibit sideshow with no additional registration fee.

We have had an exceptional bump in our stats since we posted the previous post containing the NCSF alert about the Winter Wickedness event, urging everyone to please support the Holiday Inn for hosting us. Many thanks to those of you we know have called and written the Holiday Inn locally and corporately in support of our rights to assemble and rent public accommodations. It is clear from our statcounter analysis that some of the visits have been from folks at the very websites of those who would deny us our rights to assemble and practice our lives as we choose in private. To those visitors, we hope you found your time here with our family educational and edifying. If you have anything constructive to add to the conversation here we welcome you. We've had very stimulating conversations with Christians here before. We're pretty well studied in theology, and more importantly bible history, and enjoy the clash of ideas, especially with evangelicals who are generally even more ignorant of Christian history than mainstream Christians.

The fact is that Christianity is a specious myth. We have absolutely no problem with you choosing to base your life on it, any more than we would care if you chose to base your life on Star Trek, or Harry Potter. In fact, we support and have dedicated our lives to advocating that all people be able to live their lives exactly as they choose, so long as they do not infringe upon or harm the rights of others. And we very much want you to be able to continue your bizarre rituals and continue to delude yourselves that there is some basis to your belief system.
We support you, that is, until you begin to prescribe that others have to practice your faith or live their lives in concert with your beliefs and values, whether they believe as you do our not.

Christians you have been given a pass in this society for a long time and your history is one of continual persecution and hate crimes against others in our country. It is time to end your protected status. There is a growing movement in this country to end the tax exemption of religious institutions. I for one am going to actively join that movement after this.

There is no reason why we, as tax payers, should give your religious institutions a free pass on taxes so that you can use those resources to advocate that my family and others not be able to have our rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

Get your religion off my rights.

All the best,

Tom

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.

7 comments:

  1. Bravo!! Well said indeed! I called incidentally (not sure how much impact a Canadian will have, but there you have it!)

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  2. selkie, when you call Holiday Inn corporate you get the option to select U. S. and Canada in their voicemail system menu. The fact is that Canadians spend huge money at Holiday Inns and I am sure your call was valued as a consumer vote of confidence juat as were the rest of ours.

    All the best and thank you for supporting us and our community,

    Tom

    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.

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  3. "Get your religion off my rights" says it all so eloquently and politely! And I do so fully agree that you have the right, as does anyone else, to live as you choose and as you see fit, so long as you are harming no one else in the process. And that goes without saying, of course.

    Big hugs and wishes for great success!
    Tiggs

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  4. I'm new to reading here, but just wanted to say hi, and not all Christians are like the ones you write about. Enjoy your weekend. I hope the protesters don't cause too much trouble.

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  5. Anonymous8:32 PM

    Just as a muslim following the tenets of the faith would not murder innocents, christians following the tenets of theirs would not persecute others. There are many christians that believe in freedom of choice for everyone. Please, Tom, That's a pretty big "you" you use each time you speak of christians. Repeal tax breaks, express political views, it's of course your blog, but we're really not all evil and uncaring.
    Hope your family has a wonderful weekend, and gets the needed break it deserves!

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  6. It is 2:23 AM and we returned from a great evening in the dungeon not long ago. The event is very much in the offing, and the aberrant Christians have so far not reared their heads, other than a news spot by a local TV station on the 11:00 news, but it was pretty boring. They reported from the hotel parking lot that a controversial "sex conference" was going on inside and that all the windows had been covered so no one could see in. So they had a video shot of a Holiday in with covered windows.....not very compeelling TV.

    Additionally, apparently there were numerous inspections by health, fire and police departments this afternoon, but they found no violations upon which to base closing the event.

    I understand certainly that not all religious people are narrow minded bigoted wing-nuts but in my professional life and in my personal life whenever I enounter public policy or social advocacy of any potency by religious factions it is always the right wing or very socially backward factions that are the activists. I always here that you should not paint everyone with the same broad brush, but there is never a political presence that is identifiable by the moderate (or heaven forfend progressive) religious folks.

    I am tired of being told that my life is too evil to be tolerated because it is beyond the mainstream, and I fail to see why in a country based on the precept that the government is to have no state relgion, the state should hold religious institutions harmless in terms of taxation--a financial subsidy by ommission.

    I'm tired and relieved that we are hopefully going to get through this gathering without having to post bail, and the possible loss of our careers, to have community with others.

    All the best,

    Tom

    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.

    P. S. I was hugely proud of my swan as she bottomed during our session wonderfully with her sister heart t standing guard against the encroachment of others in the dungeon, and supporting sue with after care and me by keeping the toys straight and handing them to me as I requested them. My two do me great honor in their service and submission. I am very proud of our family, and the passion and excitement of our love only grows as we are able to be ourselves within our community.

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  7. Anonymous9:46 AM

    I'm so glad you had a wonderful time. Your family always does itself proud.
    I'm also sorry for the strain the radicals of right wing christianity have put upon your affair. I can speak only for myself to say I do express that others should be able to form families, raise children, work, and live as they wish as long as they do not harm others. I vote for laws which allow that and against those that do not. I have raised children that think for themselves, but generally believe the same way. I am not a presence with a bullhorn telling Christians what to to believe because my understanding is that only God gets to tell them what to do. I think they are wrong, wrong, wrong, but my bible tells me I'm not allowed to judge them, just me. So I continue to work for a better world the way I can, regretting that the voices I think are straying the farthest from the tenets of the my faith are the loudest.
    Thank you for keeping an open place in your thoughts...

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