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12/02/2009

Frankenstein?

This was our first day at home. Our alarm clock went off first thing this morning, at 5:45, just as it does every single school day. That was an opportunity to "sleep in" actually since my usual get-up time while we were staying in the hospital was 4:30 AM.

Generally, here at home, I pile out of bed first and head off to shower and get dressed. Then I scramble out to the kitchen to make breakfast, lunch, and get us both ready to go. Of course, today and for the next bit of time, He doesn't need His lunch packed, and He isn't getting ready to "go" anywhere. So, this morning, as I was in the bathroom getting ready to go, He came in to pee and weigh and survey the damage. There were no full length mirrors in the hospital room -- just the one small mirror over the sink.
He is a "sight." He has a fairly long mid-line incision and 10 trocar incisions that were made to allow attachment of the mesh for the hernia repair. There are also two punctures where the surgical drains were installed in His abdomen. He has a pretty impressive hematoma on His belly, and enormous and ugly bruising on His hips that is the result of the heparin injections that they gave in the belly every day as a preventative for blood clotting. Standing there in the bathroom, checking it out, He said, "we ought to take some pictures of this."
So, bleary-eyed and sleepy-headed, I wandered off to find the camera and snap a few shots of the damage. They are not terrific -- I wasn't entirely awake yet, but perhaps they will give you some idea of what it is He's been through this last 8 days.

swan

5 comments:

  1. Impish19:47 PM

    But he's up! Wandering around on his own! Coming up with his own ideas! This is a very good thing.

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  2. OMG that looks so SORE ... but thank god you are home back in your own bed - I HATE hospitals ...so glad they were able to fix things.

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  3. Anonymous7:32 AM

    I'm having sympathy pains.. ouch! Feel better!!

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  4. The thing that I find most stunning when I see myself, is the degree my abdomen is swollen out of shape and distended. I've lost three to four pounds throughout all this, yet my waste is about 2 to three inches larger and my belly is just plain "shaped funny." I am assuming, and very much hoping, that this is some sort of swelling and edema resulting from the surgery that will be resolved in time.

    All the best,

    Tom

    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.

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  5. Oh my word!! I've been following throughout and am so glad to see you're home...as I'm sure swan and t are. You've been in mine and Master's thoughts and prayers since this started. You just can't know what a relief it is to know you're out of the hospital...even if you're looking rather beat up. :-)

    Master JB and butterfly

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